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"Your
Looks DO Matter"
When
it comes to the topic of looks with women, most guys are usually
clueless and confused. They tend to think in extremities: you
either need to look like Brad Pitt to pick up decent looking women,
or you can look like a homeless and still get laid.
The
truth is in-between.
I'm
sure you have seen model-looking guys with hot women and thought
she must have only been with him because of his looks. On the
contrary, you might have also seen butt-ugly guys with the hottest
girls, which left you wondering. To understand the situation better,
let's talk about the details of your first interaction with a
girl.
As
psychologists say, people will have formed a firm opinion about
you within the first 30 seconds or 1 minute of meeting you. This
is especially true for women. How can you make a good impression
on people? With your looks and with your attitude. (body language,
eye-contact, words)
And
here comes the most protected dirty little secret of seduction
gurus:
When
a woman checks you out, she will not look at your face. She will
look at your shoes and check whether they are polished or not.
She will look at your nails and see if they are long or dirty.
She will look at your clothes to see whether they are clean or
not, how they go together with your image/personality and what
they communicate. Having a style that is also consistent with
your personality is one of the most important things.
You
are a man and you will look at a girl's breasts, check out her
ass and see if she has a baby face. But women always look at the
big picture and the way you come off from the first second of
meeting you. She will picture herself in her head with you together
and think what people would say about her if she went out with
you.
Women
are self-validation junkies, they are constantly looking for the
approval of other people and you will be another piece of this
puzzle as well. Girls don't want a man on their side who doesn't
know how to look or behave.
Thus
the first step towards improving your success is fixing your looks.
You
might say that your looks is something you can't change. This
is dead wrong. You don't need plastic surgery to improve your
looks by at least 2 points on a scale from 1 to 10. All you need
is to be neat, tidy and to have some style.
If
you have big red acne on your face, get proper treatment. If your
hair is greasy and long, wash it and get a stylish haircut. If
you dress like a nerd, go to the local shopping center and get
some new clothes. You don't have to spend a million bucks on clothes;
style doesn't mean dressing expensively, it means dressing fashionably.
If you are too thin, put on some muscle. If you are fat, get on
a diet.
Do
you catch what I'm saying? Just by taking care of yourself
a little bit, you can leave a much better impression on people
and the women you interact with.
To
summarize it, your looks matter as long as you don't care about
it. As soon as you get that handled, girls won't care whether
you look like Brad Pitt or not. As long as you have the
proper attitude of course. And that is what I'll talk about in
my next article. Stay tuned.
And
if you can't wait or just don't want to, check out my book "All
About Women" at www.seduction-and-dating.com.
It's packed with up to date information on each step of getting
the girls you crave for. I also give you even more tips on improving
your looks in the book. Check
it out!
-Giuseppe
Notte
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