Ten Most Dangerous Mistakes YOU Probably Make With Women— And What To Do About
Are The Top Ten Reasons Why Men Fail With Women—And How To Make Sure YOU Avoid
Every One Of These Deadly Common Mistakes...
David DeAngelo, Author Of “Double Your Dating”
Too Much Of A “Nice Guy”
you ever noticed that the really attractive women never seem to be attracted "nice"
course you have.
like me, I'm sure you've had attractive female friends that always seemed to date
"jerks"... but for some reason they were never romantically interested in YOU.
going on here?
actually very simple...
don't base their choices of men on how "nice" a guy is. They choose the men they
do because they feel a powerful GUT LEVEL ATTRACTION for them.
nice doesn't make a woman FEEL that powerful ATTRACTION.
being NICE doesn't make a woman CHOOSE you.
realize that this doesn't make a lot of logical sense, and it's hard to ACCEPT...
but GET OVER IT.
you accept this FACT and begin to act on it, you'll NEVER have the success with
women that you want.
#2: Trying To
“Convince Her To Like You"
do most guys do when they meet a woman that they REALLY like... but she's just
They try to "convince" the woman to feel differently.
I have news for you... YOU WILL NEVER CHANGE HOW A WOMAN "FEELS" WHEN IT COMES
cannot CONVINCE a woman to feel differently about you with "logic and reasoning".
a woman doesn't "feel it" for you, how in the world do you expect to change that
FEELING by being "reasonable" with her?
we all do it.
a woman just isn't interested, we beg, plead, chase, and do our best to change
idea. One that will never work.
#3: Looking To Her
For Approval Or Permission
In our desire to please women (which we mistakenly
think will make them like us), us guys are always doing things to get a woman's
"approval" or "permission".
are NEVER attracted to the types of men who kiss up to them... EVER.
get me wrong here.
don't have to treat women BADLY for them to like you.
if you think that treating a woman well means "always getting her approval and
permission for things", think again.
will never succeed by looking for approval. Women actually get ANNOYED at men
who seek their approval.
me? Just ask any attractive woman if Wussy guys who chase her around and want
her approval annoy her...
MISTAKE #4: Trying To “Buy” Her Affection With Food And Gifts
How many times have you taken a woman out
to a nice dinner, bought her gifts and flowers, and had her REJECT you for someone
who didn't treat her even HALF as well as you did?
you're like me, then you've had it happen a LOT.
only NATURAL when this happens...
right, I said NATURAL.
you do these things, you send a clear message:
don't think you'll like me for who I am, so I'm going to try to buy your attention
and affection". Your
good intentions usually come across to women as over-compensation for insecurity,
and weak attempts at manipulation. That's right, I said that women see this as
“How You Feel” Too Early In
The Relationship With Her
huge and unfortunate mistake that most men make with women is sharing how they
"feel" too early on.
women are rare.
they get a LOT of attention from men.
men don't realize this, but attractive women are being approached in one way or
another ALL THE TIME.
attractive woman is often approached several times a DAY by men who are interested.
This translates into dozens of times per week, and often HUNDREDS of times per
women have usually dated a LOT of men.
right. They have EXPERIENCE.
know what to expect.
one thing that turns an attractive women off and sends her running away faster
than just about anything is a guy who starts saying "You know, I really, REALLY
like you" after one or two dates.
signals to the woman that you're just like all the other guys who fall for her
too fast... and can't control themselves.
do it. Lean back. Relax.
a much better way...
#6: Not “Getting” How Attraction Works For Women
are VERY different from men when it comes to ATTRACTION.
need to accept this fact, and deal with it.
a man sees a beautiful, young, sexy woman, he INSTANTLY feels a sexual attraction.
does the same apply for women?
women feel sexual attraction to men based mostly on looks? Or is something else
after studying this topic for over five full years now, I can tell you that women
usually have their "attraction mechanisms" triggered by things OTHER than looks.
you ever noticed that you see a lot more average and unattractive men with beautiful
women than the other way around?
are more attracted to certain qualities in men... and they're attracted to the
way a man makes them FEEL than they are to looks alone.
you know how to use your body language and communication correctly, you can make
women feel the same kind of powerful sexual attraction to you that YOU feel when
you see a hot, sexy young woman.
it's not an accident. You have to LEARN how to do this.
ANY guy can learn how...
MISTAKE #7: Thinking That It
Takes Money And Looks
of the most common mistakes that guys make is giving up before they've even gotten
started... because they think that attractive women are only interested in men
who have looks and money... or guys who are a certain height... or guys who are
a certain age.
sure, there are some women who are only interested in these things.
MOST women are far more interested in a man's personality than his wallet or his
are personality traits that attract women like a magnet...
if you learn what they are and how to use them, YOU can be one of these guys.
DO NOT have to "settle" for a woman just because you aren't rich, tall, or handsome.
me say this again: If you know how to use your body language and communication
correctly, you can make women feel the same kind of powerful sexual attraction
to you that YOU feel when you see a hot, sexy young woman.
#8: Giving Away
All Of Your Power To Women
Earlier I mentioned that it's a mistake to
look to a woman for approval or permission.
another similar tactic that a lot of guys use is GIVING AWAY THEIR POWER to women.
differently, guys try to get women to like them by doing whatever the woman wants.
are NEVER attracted to men that they can walk all over... Women aren't attracted
MISTAKE #9: Not Knowing
EXACTLY What To Do In Each
Type Of Situation With
Now I'm going to blow your mind...
woman ALWAYS knows what you're thinking.
are approximately TEN TIMES better than men at reading body language. That's ten
know, it might be hard to believe. But for example, if you're out on a date with
a woman, and you want to kiss her, she knows it.
if you don't know exactly what to do and exactly HOW to kiss her, and you just
sit there looking at her and getting nervous, she won't help!
this goes for ALL aspects of women and dating...
a woman, getting her number, asking her out, kissing her, getting physical...
you don't know what to do in each situation, you will probably screw it up...
and LOSE EVERYTHING.
you KNOW it.
is VITALLY important that you know EXACTLY how to go from one step to the next
with a woman... from the first meeting, all the way to the bedroom.
MISTAKE #10: Not Getting HELP
is the biggest mistake of all.
is the mistake that keeps most men from EVER having the kind of success with women
that they truly want.
know, guys don't like to make themselves look weak or helpless. We don't like
to ask for help.
I've been there myself.
me tell you a little about me and how I figured out how to be successful with
five years ago I became fed up with the fact that I didn't know how to approach,
meet, and get dates with women that I was attracted to.
frustrated the hell out of me.
night I was out with a friend, and I saw a woman I wanted to ask out, but I just
couldn't get up the nerve to do it. I can still remember that night... right on
the spot I made the decision to do whatever it took to learn how to be successful
with women and dating.
after a lot of hard work and trying all kinds of crazy things, I finally figured
it all out.
can now approach just about any woman and get her number almost instantly. I've
dated models, I've dated actresses, and I've dated nice, normal, regular girls
has been a very rewarding experience. I no longer feel that sick, insecure feeling...
like I don't know how to meet women... and I might wind up alone.
know that anytime, anywhere, I can go out and meet attractive women.
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