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"How
To Make Your Dates Effective And Unforgettable"
You
are on the first date with a girl you have a crush on. Your palms
are sweating, you are trying damn hard to come up with something
funny to say, only to have long silences in your conversation.
She gets up after an hour and says: "Sorry but it's getting
late. I have to go home to feed my dog." Before you could
say something, she has left already.
I'm
sure the above situation has come up in your worst nightmares.
The most crucial part of your interactions and the key to success
with women is the first date. If you do it well, it will be easy
to get down and dirty quickly.
Most
guys do something boring on the first date. Going to the movies
together, sitting at a cafe, having an expensive dinner at a restaurant
– the list is endless. It's easy to use this to your advantage:
by putting in a little bit of fantasy, you will be way ahead of
the crowd.
Here
is how:
When
I go out with a woman, I take her on an "adventure
date". This word has multiple meanings as you will
see. We do something exciting and romantic in the same time. Something
that brings you as close as it's possible on a first date.
Let's
see an example:
A
friend of mine takes his girls on an exciting outing. They visit
one of the local sightseeing locations and end up at an abandoned
ruin of a castle. By then it's usually getting dark – don't
worry though, my friend is there to hug and provide safety for
our just-a-little-bit frightened girl :)
Another
example:
We
have a hill in my city with a castle and some monuments on the
top. There is a tunnel crossing the hill. A tunnel, which ends
in a bridge. The bridge is illuminated at night giving a wonderful
sight.
Usually,
I take my date on a short walk among the monuments. As it is getting
dark, we go on a tiny little road down the hill. A road, which
leads us to a place that only a few people know: the top of the
tunnel. And below us it's the entire city giving a wonderful and
romantic sight. This is the point where I go in for the first
kiss with the girl.
Don't
think that you need special places or monuments to go on adventure
dates. You can even do them indoors:
When
the weather doesn't allow going outside, I bring my girls to the
local shopping center. We sit to a cafe and talk a bit. Then I
stand up and invite them for a walk around. We visit a few shops
while shopping some clothes for me. Then we play bowling or go
to the local bookstore. It's funny to laugh at the various love
and sex advice books together with the girl.
The
above are just examples, it's easy to come up with your own ideas.
All you need is a little bit of fantasy and to know your city
a little. Check out a local city guide paper for some examples
or ask a friend who knows.
The
key of adventure dates is not in the adventure itself, but in
sharing activities with the girl. If you sit to a cafe and stay
there for 4 hours, it will be nothing more than a conventional
date. But if you sit to a cafe, then visit other places as well
while being together, she will lose her sense of time and feel
like you've known each other for a while. In that state, it's
much easier to go in for the first kiss and get further.
Finally, if you are interested
in improving your success with women and learning more tips and
tricks of seduction, check
out my e-book called "All About Women: The Encyclopedia
Of Seduction". In my book, I cover each step of the seduction
process, from understanding the way women think, learning to be
a Man who attracts girls with his presence, the right way of approaching
women, secrets to make your dates successful and effective, to
improving your sexual life and a lot, lot more... Whether you
are ugly, bald, young, old or broke, the techniques I teach will
work for you like charm!
Goodbye
till next time:
-Giuseppe Notte
www.seduction-and-dating.com
Author of the "ALL ABOUT WOMEN" e-book
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